Appunto per questo ti volevo incontrare, semplicemente per capire ed evitare così rotture traumatiche.
E grave wuest’affetmazione, si torna indietro di ca 2 anni. Capisci la gravità, no? Vuol dire allora che tutte quelle tiepide manifestazioni di affetto, interesse, non voglio parlate D’AMORE, non m’illudo, era tutta una finzione solo perché io ti rappresento un business, perché guadagni grosse somme da mio fratello tramite il “lsvoro”su di me, un lavoro di affermazioni e subito dopo negazioni?. No, caro, questo non l’accetto. Ti ho offerto tutta la mia comprensione, il mio affetto senza pretendere nulla in cambio. Ora peto basta, non esigo tuo amore, dallo a chi vuoi, ma il tuo rispetto sì, quello lo esigo assolutamente. Non è così che si tratta una donna che si è pubblicamente sputtanata per te per non sporcare il tuo nomr,ls tua dignità. Sono terribilmente delusa da te anche perché mai è poi mai ti ho chiesto qualcosa.
L’altro giorno mi hai detto che mi volevi sposare e lasciamo stare la volontà che hai espresso, guardiamo solo alle positività dell’affeymsxionr che denota interesse nei miei confronti. Il giorno dopo tutto l'opposto. E così fino a stamani quando poi mi hai detto che “wuslcuno*, mio fratello, TI PAGA PER ME.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
E poi chi fa finta di essere te? La solita, si sa, mi ha dichiarato guerra da non so quanto infatti la giudico una squilibrata : non ho mai capito quelle donne che se la rifanno con altre donne pensando che vogliano portar loro via la loro fonte di sostegno perché purtroppo molte donne, quasi tutte ormai, mettono i loro interessi davanti a tutto e i 2 cuori ed una capanna ormai è da sceme, da stupide. Embè, su questo io rimango sempre la stessa, una sognatrice che ama dpasdoonatamrnte e disinteressata mente. Ma questa è l’era di ben altro tipo di donne e sentirsi ibquisire su un lontano passato di 35 anni fa da donne che oggi forse meriterebbero loro stesse di essere inquisiti e quanto di può ridicolo ci possa essere. Io non giudico nessuno ma non voglio nemmrno essere giugicata in base ad un passato “preistotico*, che chi mi giudica nemmeno conosce.
Era solo per questo che ti volevo incontrare in un bar a prendere un caffè, per capire chi tu sia veramente, se tutte le gravissime offese (sei un camion della nettezza) e tanto altro ancora possano provenire da te come anche le minacce di morte. Prima me ne è arrivata una soft, grazie a Dio “ti verranno a prendere *. Al che ho risposto se mi portavano a cena fuori al mare a mangiare pesce.!!!, 😂 Per piacere dammi una risposta.
